Fall down 7, Stand 8th!

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Hello People! How’re you guys doing up? I hope everyone is doing fine and is in a good state. What are your plans for the week, huh? With every post, my bonding with you guys is getting stronger and stronger and I’m really happy about this. :’)

“Fall down 7, Stand 8th” is a Chinese proverb which I feel is the most appropriate and relatable when it comes down to our lives. Since, we all are adults and mature enough, I believe, distraction has been one of the most disastrous factor effecting the psyche as well as the performance.

So, the blog titled “FALL DOWN 7, STAND 8TH” is a message to all those who have been performing low till now and possess that ‘never giving up’ attitude in their lives. Certainly, Circumstances do create a change in everyone’s life. At one point, you feel to be the happiest person alive and the very next moment, you’re tired of everything and see yourself in the most loneliest place. That’s what life is all about – Up streams and down streams.. Some overcome their bad phase very quickly and the other end up struggling and fighting with themselves.

You just have to believe in the fact that, you don’t have to wait for anything to affect you or destroy you. I can understand what it feels like ‘being in the ocean of sorrows’ and having no one to help you in it but my friend, It’s totally your battle with yourself.  You’ll not be able to start the next chapter of your life if you’ll keep revising the older one. So, made your decision now? Yes, it is the right time to start and move on to better things.

A WORD FROM A WRITER,

I have seen myself weak and lost at the same time. Fell several times. I have made mistakes, encountered anxiety attacks and what not. Seen myself in the most loneliest times and yes, I have failed. I have lost many precious things which I thought would last a forever, but now where I’m? Where am I heading upto?

Felt, nothing would be easy in my life and but you know what kept me going? My self belief and the positive attitude I had on my life. This story is not only mine but each one of us silently facing all the hardships with a pleasant smile hiding away the fears behind. It isn’t easy to battle from yourself but I promise, there will come a day in your life when everything will be changed and that happiness in the end, will be worth everything.

Phases, come and go.. But, at the end, you need both the sun and the rain to make it’s colors appear.  So, what are you thinking  up now? Start where you are, use what you have and do what you can, but don’t give up. You’re not a coward. You’re a fighter and challenge yourself, make your move and CONQUER! Get up and rise.

I BELIEVE IN YOU!

 

 

 

 

To The Road Not Taken!

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Hello people! How’re you guys doing? Weekend is up so what are your plans, huh? Before starting up, I just want to say that I love you guys and thank you so much for the response you people showed on “I STAND WITH DREAMERS”.

Okay, so let’s start with today’s discussion. Are you guys excited?

The blog titled ‘To The Road Not Taken’ is almost the story of each on of us, constantly struggling to choose the road we want to pursue. I thought of writing this as I personally felt that there was a need for such a topic to be discussed on such a wider platform.

I ain’t walking away from my fears, I ain’t walking away from my worries, just another day and choose to keep moving no matter where it takes me. Whatever may be the circumstance, life always offer us with Two Roads. Some may end up choosing the most comfortable one, whereas some willingly choose the path full of difficulties and are ready to live a life, grinding. Everyone wants to be successful but it’s totally about the decision to choose the correct road you want to traverse. You aren’t really aware about what’s going to happen next but it’s important to figure out what is good and what is bad for you. It’s the right time to choose which road you want to travel!

The road may end up dark, full of anxiousness but don’t stop. Wait for that patronus and you’ll see the sky, your way full of light!

I lost my way when things were hard,

Sorrows and aches became my scars.

No one guided me how to sail and how to reach the shore,

They said, you’re just a dreamer without any hope.

I struggled with the ocean of sorrows, life became hard and just had to cope!

And.. Then, I saw the sky full of light. Clearly, saw my destine written to be very bright!

The boy who only knew how to dream, accepted the challenge and made it to the shore, You know what kept him going? His self belief and the decision to choose the road, which made him to the shore. He stood there, he learned, he conquered, he won!

My friend, you’re close, very close. Don’t stop, not for anyone, not for anything.

I just want to end this by saying- Go on and live whatever, comes your way at the end and don’t forget to add a happy smile to it.

I STAND WITH DREAMERS!

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Hello People! I know it’s been long that I have not been writing anything for you people and I’m really sorry for that. So, how’re you guys doing?

So, today’s blog titled “I stand with dreamers” is just a message from a dreamer himself!

A WORD FROM A DREAMER,

I’m overwhelmed and tired at the same time.

I’m a bit lost on my way!

I’m lagging behind with many things,

I’m in a space where i feel alone and saturated, But?

I dream. I dream every single second, every minute. I dream of my own beautiful world. I really want to make a change in my life and leave a mark.

Here, I stand with all those have been failing consistently with their grades but still wish to get up every time strong, I stand with all those who have been categorized as fellows, not good enough or worthy for anything. I really stand for all those who have been suffering a lot and are drowning in their sorrows.

But you know what? You absolutely have to believe in that you’re capable to create a change in your life as well in other’s life. Yes, you’re worthy and good enough with everything possible and yes, you will create a mark, My Friend!

“To dream is to create something and that means you’re already one step ahead from others, so what do you choose? To be the LEADER or to follow the LEAD?”

I want to conclude here by saying that,

I believe a dream is just like an echo. What you sow, you reap. What you imagine, you get!

Till then, keep hustling and keep smiling!

 

Be You; Let the World Adjust!

Hello to all the readers! How’re you guys doing? So, let’s get started with today’s discussion.

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The blog titled “Be You; Let the World Adjust” is a note to all those individuals who have been working hard on their vision but substantially got influenced and have forgotten what it means to be ‘YOU’. Do you think even you’re categorized into this? My friend, This is for you!

Let me ask you one simple question. Honestly, ask this from yourself – ” The system you breath in or the world you live in?”. So, where do you think you actually are? Ask your mind. Where do you actually lie? Well, I’ll always and always choose to breath in my system rather than living in the world. Your system is just your space, your area without any rules and obligations and here, you are just being yourself . Living in the world means to be bound; to rely on someone for something and being influential without any inner peace. So, have you made your decision now? Good!

Everyone out here is aligned with his own timings. Many are successful at a very young age and many are actually striving to get a monthly bonus. The one’s being successful followed a simple rule of sticking to their plans , to themselves and ‘JUST REMAINED WHAT THEY ACTUALLY WERE’. They are the one’s working from dawn to dust and just believed in themselves, that yes- THEY CAN DO IT! It’s good to hustle and strive but don’t change your plans seeing someone else. Only you know what you’re capable of, so do not stop working on them, seeing someone else.

IF YOU DON’T GIVE UP, YOU STILL HAVE A CHANCE. GIVING UP IS THE GREATEST FAILURE. – JACK MA ( FOUNDER, CEO – ALI BABA )

Here, are some points on how to remain focused on your vision to achieve something!

  1. If you’re going to beat yourself for all the things you’re doing wrong, learn to reward yourself for all the things you’re doing right. Learn to reward yourself.
  2. Try to make yourself a PERSISTENT character rather, than being consistent. Being persistent is of value.
  3. Look at all the things you have been getting right, the skills you have developed and knowledge and understanding you have now and that you didn’t have months ago.
  4. Always believe in working smarter. Working hard as I believe, is not good enough. You just end up cramming and there is no time left to develop yourself.
  5. Struggle being the average and learn being the richest. This is what I feel. Be a person who is always ready to learn and has the strength to face challenges.
  6. Just believe in what you’re and what you can be. Trust on your timings and choose the right path always.
  7. Create your own move rather than learning to play from someone.

A LITTLE PROGRESS EACH DAY ADDS TO BIGGER RESULTS. JUST DO IT FOR THE PEOPLE WHO DON’T WANT TO SEE YOU WINNING. – ARPIT PAHWA, AUTHOR OF THE PARALLEL EDIT

Work on your strengths and not your weaknesses!

HELLO TO ALL THE READERS OUT THERE!

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I hope you all had a great weekend. So, let’s get started now!

The blog titled ” WORK ON YOUR STRENGTHS AND NOT YOUR WEAKNESSES “ is just a simple layout so that anyone can easily analyse his/her positive points as well as the negative aspects in his performance throughout and can accordingly work on them and master themselves. Forget about all the weaknesses you carry, just believe in yourself, your idea and work on all the positive sides of YOU!

  • I always believe focusing on your positive sides or what you call as your strengths is always a great idea as it nurtures and nourishes you to perform efficiently in such a competitive environment in the marketplace, as well as inculcates high level of confidence and self esteem to work with highly skilled people.

Working on your strengths opens you up to new challenges and you may have to face some failures as well, but what matters is the exposure you got from it and the experience you learned from it. It helps you to move ahead in the game and ultimately gets you over the top. Whereas, if you have been working on your weaknesses first, you’re doing it all wrong.

  • Working on your weaknesses gets you lag behind in the game as well as leaves you trailing. I have seen people building strong walls internally and they just avoid taking up risks and it eventually, leads to experimentations taking a back seat. They just end up following their routines in a very secure manner.

YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM YOUR COMPETITOR, BUT NEVER COPY. COPY AND YOU DIE! – JACK MA ( FOUNDER AND CEO, ALIBABA GROUP)


Through, this blog I want to share something with you and I believe it’s the most important of them all. The roughest part of my life went up in school when being an average person was considered to be “dumb head”. Either, you should be too intelligent in your academics or you’re a failure. I mean that’s what i have ended up going through in my school days. You really can’t judge someone on the basis of their marks. Like you never know he may end up doing his own startup or working in the biggest venture. It affects the psych of a child when he is being called as a “failure”. Failure is just a wrong word to describe someone!

To all the mates who have been struggling or are struggling with this, you’re not a failure. Just believe in your yourself and I promise you’ll end up doing something big. It’s the time to change and the change starts from you. Work on yourself daily and forget about all the negative feedbacks. Believe in working smartly and not hardly. Yes, you can do it!

“RAISE THE SAIL WITH YOUR STRONGER HAND” – ARPIT PAHWA, AUTHOR OF THE PARALLEL EDIT

“TO THE NEXT THREE MONTHS!”

HELLO TO ALL THE READERS OUT THERE!

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So, 2017 actually went in a flash. Every year we begin and welcome the new year with so many resolutions and desires and conclude with a sentence “this year will be in favour of me”. Actually, do you think you have really, really put down every single effort to make your resolution work? Think about it. Well, the answer is very simple and it’s a BIG NO!

I have actually taken this topic into account as I feel the need to motivate and inspire the ones whose year has so far been struggling, has been in some sort of emotional stress or peer pressure. We all want to give our best in every field but eventually, we end up procrastinating the things and this laziness washes everything down.

The blog titled ” TO THE NEXT THREE MONTHS” is just a blueprint for the ones who are actually willing to work hard for their dreams and desires, irrespective, of what circumstances they’re in, stood even after many failures and still want to make a change!

Forget about those past 9 months and it’s time to focus on the next 3 months. Let’s give it a fresh and positive start so that you can execute every single plan or wish you just had in your mind which will be beneficial for you in long run.

Confused? The plans you thought you would execute past 9 months and failed. How come will they be possible now? “WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T? YOU CAN.”

  • Stop complaining and whinging about every small thing. Patience is what you need and just believe in yourself and your timings. Things will get in your way at the right time and in the right manner.
  • Occasional practice gives occasional results. Dream every time and work on your idea daily.
  • You’ve got to dedicate yourself every day to master yourself. Your belief on yourself will what get you on the top.
  • Invest your time in yourself and for yourself. Put in every single effort required to develop the right skill and knowledge in this so competitive world.
  • It’s the right time to build your network, to meet new people and gain more knowledge.

EXPERIMENTATIONS MAY GET YOU FAILED BUT THE EXPERIENCE TO FAIL WILL TEACH YOU AND GET YOU ONE STEP AHEAD! – ARPIT PAHWA, WRITER OF THE PARALLEL EDIT

I hope this was effective and helpful for you guys and I think now, you can get on the charge to do the rest of your work. See you in the next blog till then keep moving and keep hustling!

Small roads often leads to beautiful destinations!

HELLO TO ALL THE READERS OUT THERE!

Every minute, second and hour counts in the pursuit of your calling, purpose and dreams. You might not get it right; you will make mistakes, you’ll mess up with everything but deep down it will be going to teach you some valuable lessons of life.

“IF YOU WANT TO GO FAST, GO ALONE. IF YOU WANT TO GO FAR, GO TOGETHER.”

Pursuing your dreams is as much about the journey and the destination but even our timing that doesn’t always align with our plans and wishes. So, no day is to be wasted.

LET’S GET STARTED! 

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What inference can you gather from this picture. C’mon give it a try! I have been trying to teach you guys how to simplify your living but this picture, I’m very much sure it will definitely be helpful on your small steps towards success.

So, the picture shows number of stairs with each caption being described on the stair. So, now the job is to analyse yourself and depending on your performance, you have to figure out on what stair you stand today and this will give an idea about how much you need to work hard to get on the top. 

I mean it’s very easy. Just try this for every thing whether it may be your core subject or some project you have been working for. I promise you’ll definitely see the results and that smile on your face will be worth after all the struggles.

Have a good week ahead!

Live your dreams; Not your fears!

HELLO TO ALL THE READERS OUT THERE!

Let’s get started. What’s your dream? Currently, what are you working for? What are those things that fascinates you the most and you really will to work for the same for your own self development and growth?

Ask yourself. Daily! Think about it. Analyse your weaknesses and strengths, take all of these points into consideration and you’ll surely get to your point. Just explore your mind thoughts and the solution is in front of you.

Desires are what I call as “BUT PARTS OF THE DREAM”. Dream everyday. Think about all the good times you want from your life and like i always say, try to give the first hour after you wake up to that only thing you love doing the most whether it may be anything.

Here, are some quick hacks to overcome anything without having fear-

  • Improvement starts from ‘us’. You just have to figure out what is right and what is wrong. Implement your decisions well and the rest just depends on your path which can lead to either building of a new “YOU” or can end up in your devastation.
  • Moving creates motion so, move nevertheless what circumstances you’re in.
  • Grab your opportunities and start believing in yourself. Try to make yourself a person of wisdom.
  • Feeling low? Just chant this in your head ” YES, I CAN DO IT”. I promise this will definitely boost you to the next level and you’ll see success at just your feet.A
  • Always try to have that one trick in your mind which is not in the book.

If you have been afraid of failing, I believe it’s time to get over it. You can be your greatest friend and at the same time your biggest enemy. When the things are not going in your favour, you can just regret on the choices you made but at the end, everything’s fine and sorted. You just have to believe in yourself. These fears can make you stop from focussing on the life happenings. IT’S THE TIME TO GET RID OF IT!

LIFE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL AND YET CHALLENGING. YOU JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR YOUR TURN AND BURN THE BRIDGE DOWN. – ARPIT PAHWA

 

BECOME BETTER ; ATTRACT BETTER

HELLO TO ALL THE READERS OUT THERE!

So, this blog will be basically focusing on how to improve yourself as a better person.

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Happiness lies in one self. The moment you tie your happiness to anyone or anything, you give away your powers easily. I have found myself drowning in the ocean of sorrows but eventually, it was me who worked on every bit to improve myself as a better human being.

Sometimes things go your way and sometimes they don’t but that doesn’t mean they should break you and take away all your shine, joy and love for your life. Just remember and say this to yourself daily that- “I’m a star shine and that never fades.” 

The greatest secret of being a better person is the ability to let go off the things and to learn the art of telling yourself “things will get in my favour in the right way and in the right manner”.

Think positive. Work in a positive environment. Be friends with people who constantly pushes you in every downfall and enjoy every success of you. Keep them very close to your heart as they will serve as your backbone in your making; the rest is just YOU!

Work on yourself every day. Plan things in a systematic manner. Make yourself a person of wisdom. Help the needy and get to work without any excuse.

The easiest way to change your life is to get into the habit of trying new things. –  Joe Duncan

 

Blowing off someone’s candle will not light yours!

HELLO READERS!

What meaning can you gather from the title of this blog? Common try it!

Well, I have taken this topic into account as with ageing, I have observed so many people trying to steal someone’s success by taking a clear short path so as to become rich fastly. I have always believed that – “Don’t run too fast as it may get you down, Don’t run too slow it may lag you behind. Be in the middle and you’ll get to know how much you need to reach towards your goal.” Eventually you’ll learn”.

So, to my reader community, you can dream and work for it but do not steal someone’s dream and own someone’s fortune. The success acquired by stealing someone’s dream is very short-lived and with time, the empire and the mansions you have built will definitely turn into ruins!

So, let me ask you one thing. WHAT’S YOUR DREAM?

We belong to a world where the “human wants are endless” and the sole reason are the “desires which are the root cause of all evils”. We all want are our dreams to be fulfilled. We all do want to live every dream but for that you have to be on the top of the rat-race.

“THE MORE WE WIN, THE MORE WE LOSE; THE MAXIMUM WE CONQUER, THE LEAST WE KEEP”

So, the best choice is dream and work for it and It’s a promise you’ll win. Not on your first shot but yeah ONE DAY! Life is all about the struggles but at the end of the day it’s just you; your choices; your decisions which will curate in making of you or breaking of you. It’s the time to choose wisely and work accordingly!

I Just want to end this by saying-

  • Everyone is living on their own time period. Someone may become rich at the age of 25 and someone at the age of 40. It’s the daily efforts and your luck which can turn everything round for you. So, keep hustling!
  • Learn from life. Everyday! Try to make yourself an avid reader, an average person who is always ready to learn. Develop yourself over time and you’ll see a change in you.